Sorry for infrequent blogs of late--busy prepping for my Special Children's League Fundraiser and also trip to NY to visit Melissa and new baby.
Dad has been doing the same...still walking, eating well, some days more talkative than others. Today when I went to visit him, his speech was strained, though Haydee said that earlier in the day he was speaking well. He seemed stuck on a phrase as I spoke to him, perhaps something he heard on television--can't recall it exactly, had the number 4 in it. I brought out some photos and he still kept repeating the phrase, until I got to a photo of Mom and mentioned it had been four years since she had died. He then said "I wish she didn't leave." Continued to show the pictures, pointing out photos of granddaughter Suzie and that she was expecting her 2nd child.
Anna has reported that all is well with Dad. She and Al said they wished that the other residents would eat like Charlie! The new gentleman that had recently moved in unfortunately died this morning (found dead in his bed at wake-up.)
Got a letter from Emerald Isle management that they are increasing the cost per month from $4000 to $4200 "due to rising staffing and operational costs" effective January 1, 2011. For now, I am still utilizing Anna and Haydee, each an extra 8 hours/week ($15/hour) to give Dad more individualized attention, including exercise and social interaction. I think having Anna for 4 hours on 2 days, secures some extra attention and good will from all the Emerald Isle caregivers (Anna, Al & Juana) on the other days of the week as well. I think Haydee, who is so conscientious, pleasant and friendly, offers Dad a regular special visitor that I hope and think he enjoys. Let me know if you have some other thoughts.
