New Year's Day

(Warning of a personal hygiene-detailed post to follow!)

Dad had a pretty good day. We finally had some good timing with the toileting so that we didn't need to change his morning diaper until this evening (up until then, he had only pooped, but not peed in the toilet.) Unfortunately, though, he is on day 3 of no pooping. I also noticed what I think are hemorrhoids so I've been cleaning with some Tucks pads.

For the 2nd day in a row, we took a walk outside/around my house and then we spent a few minutes bouncing the basketball back and forth to each other. Today, I decided to add calling out the alphabet as we bounced (I bounce "a", he bounced back "b", etc.) We did that several times, then we expanded to counting by twos, odds, then evens, then by tens. I think he liked it, but seemed glad when he got to retire in his favorite leather chair for a snack, nap and then watch Dylan on his bike.' If anyone has good suggestions for "mental games" for Dad, please share.

Tonight, we went out to dinner for a Mexican meal (Dad had Mexican seabass, rice and beans). He ate only about half, so we brought home the leftovers. Currently having berries and cream while we watch Deal or No Deal. Hopefully we'll have success on the toilet before bed!

Day 4

We seem to be settling into somewhat of a routine. Dad's learning his way around the house and such. Ate well today...3 meals, plus a couple of snacks. Really liked the fresh berries and whipped cream for dessert. Did his leg exercises on the couch. Still napping a lot when sedentary but did have a good walk from the parking lot to Dylan's physical therapy location. Enjoyed watching me and Dylan bike ride again from the sun porch couch.

Day 3 in California

Dad was a little less confused today, and seemed happier. Still slept a lot, and took naps during the day. I think he found his favorite spot in my house which is a nice leather chair on our "sun porch" that looks out over our patio/pool area. It's a very warm spot and he sat down and watched (and slept) while Dylan rode his bike outside.

We went to CVS in late afternoon and Dad said he was up for walking around the store with me (with his walker.) About half way through the store I started to "smell" something. By the time we got home, he had leaked through his pants, so we had a bit of clean up to do. We had already taken a shower that morning, and it seemed to work out okay, so he got in for another after we returned to get cleaned up.

Seemed to really enjoy the Roast Filet Mignon meat I had cooked for dinner, along with salad, green beans, wheat english muffin and cheesecake for dessert. Played a little bit of cribbage with Ryland. Needed help, but did set his hand correctly without help a couple of times. Also seemed to be able to count the cards with prompting.

Day 2 in California

Dad slept quite well...finally roused him around 9:30am, then toileted and washed up in the bathroom. Had pancakes for breakfast. Seemed a bit more confused and lethargic today...perhaps due to jetlag. It was a gorgeous clear day here, but on the cooler side (for us)...60's. Dad sat outside for a while. I walked him to the edge of my deck to look at the ocean and he noticed some ships. He then said "I could just die right here right now"...and I wasn't sure if it was because he felt tired or because he appreciated the view! I reminded him that he had once told me that after he died he wanted his ashes spread on the Pacific, but I didn't really get a response to that.

ANyway, it was a bit busy here today as a group of my girlfriends with kids had come to visit (my original West LA roommates/girlfriends...hadn't all gotten together in several years). 3 of them have only daughters, ages 7 to 11. We had lunch together at the house with Dad, but Dad didn't eat much. Dad stayed with Paul while we all went for a nice walk by the cliffs. On our return, Ken and family had arrived for their visit with Dad. Dad mostly stayed in the family room watching the football game, but initiated getting up several times, often seeming a big confused and/or saying "we need to set up the program.." and other gibberish. Judy, Ken, Dylan and I sat with him for awhile, and Judy gave us some tips and comparisons with her experiences at the Sunrise facility. Dad had a late snack (mini-sandwich, grapes), then Judy and Ken helped Dad in the bathroom before departing around 6pm. Dad had dinner a little later (chinese chick salad, eng muffin, slice of pizza) and milk and cookies. Had his 2nd Bowel movement in as many days here on the toilet (yeah!...it's all about the poops at our house!) and cleaned up and went to bed around 9:30pm.

Dad's arrival in California, December 27, 2008

Dad and Ken arrived without incident. Dylan and I had driven to the airport to pick them up. Ken said Dad only ate half a sandwich on the plane, so when he arrived at my house, after going to the bathroom and freshening up, he had a light meal of macaroni and cheese, english muffin and apricots (and took meds). He went right for the meal without prompting, and commented that the apricots were "really tasty". After eating, he sat on the couch with me, Ryland and Dylan watching the end of Oceans 13. Is now toileting before bedtime, around 10:15pm PST.

Though he asked some of the same questions repeatedly, overall he seems more alert than I expected. He definitely seemed intrigued with Dylan and Ryland, commenting that I had a blonde and a brunette, and I was halfway between!

I have set up the intercom to "monitor" his room (like we do Dylan's)...hopefully he will sleep comfortably through the night.

Dad Gets a New Identification Card

I just realized a couple of days ago that Dad would be asked for picture ID at the airport. He has a VA card, (but no drivers license). [I didn't want to have to carry his birth certificate-it is fragile and falling apart.]

So I went to the DMV. I needed two forms of ID so I had to go back home. I got a copy of his birth certificate. But they needed the original. Also Dad had to come and get a new picture.

After two trips, I brought his DD-214 and his original birth certificate and Dad! Bettie came also. I said I would drop her off at the shopping center for an hour. But she said no to that. She helped Dad negotiate the steps at the place.

I didn't have to wait too long. I guess a lot of people must be out shopping!

I also bought Dad some new pants. He only has one pair that is not falling off. I only had to make two trips to figure out the correct size. And I still have to return some. But I don't mind; I always have to return and exchange my own clothes at least once (especially when I don't try them on in the store!)

More Thoughts on Dad's Visit with Dr. Lichstein

Well, here are some things I left out of the last blog.

Dr. Lichstein asked why Dad's left side of his mouth was drooping. I said does that mean he had a stroke? Dr. Lichstein asked my Dad to raise his arms up and then he said he didn't think so.

We talked about Dad's itching. Dr. Lichstein asked if Rx cream was doing any good--I said it seemed to work for about an hour. [Looking back, he hasn't scratched as much as he had been doing about a month ago]. I told him he takes claritin for it as well.

I also talked about Hospice as a place for Dad to go to. He said that they don't take Alzheimer patients. But I was only thinking of it as a place for late stages of life (like last couple of weeks?). He wasn't sure of that situation.

I might think of other things. I will try to write them down later.

Dad's Visit with Dr. Lichstein

Dad visited Dr. Lichstein last Thursday.

First of all, Dad weighs 146. He has gradually lost about 10 pounds. I just noticed it recently in the last couple of weeks. I had to replace the large size Depends with medium size.

Dad's BP was 166. Dr. Lichstein did not comment on this during the visit. Later that week at home his BP was 130.

Dad was somewhat apathetic. I think it has something to do with the cold. Though Dr. Lichstein mentioned that Dad probably will gradually becoming more ? this coming year. [not sure what the word is].

Dr. Lichstein told Dad that he was "very expensive", when I mentioned moving to save money. I then mentioned to Dad that he used to tell us that it costs about $100,000 to raise each of us. I asked Dr. Lichstein about Dad living at my house. He also asked (like Justine) whether I could handle the burden of it. He seemed to think the chair lift was okay, though. His sister has one.

I told Dr. Lichstein about the visit to California and he reminded me to tell the airline about using wheelchairs, etc.

Dr. Lichstein renewed Dad's prescriptions. Dad got a flu shot. He also got a blood test, to test thyroid and other things.

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
i assisted him with a shower, sitz bath, back
rub and skin care. Mr Dancys appetite was
at 80% for all meals.He took napps on and
off all day,still feeling tired due to the cold.
i gave him the medication that was here
for his cold.His BP was good 130/78.He is
relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
i assisted him in the bathroom before..
breakfast. He slept on and off most of the
evening. His appetite was at 80% for
all meals.He is resting by the tv at this time.
Ilene

''Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at
7:30 am.I assisted him in the bathroom
with a sitz bath,back-rub,skin care and
ear drops. He seems to be feeling much
better today. His appetite was good eating
90% of all meals. We listened to some
opera on tv,i got out a puzzle but he didnt
want to participate. His BP is good,138/80,
at 6:pm.Mr Dancy is watching tv at this
time.

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning.
i assisted him in the bathroom before,
breakfast. Mr Dancy was moving slow today,
he didnt seem to be feeling well.I gave him
the medication for a cold and tonight he is
feeling better.His appetite was good today
eating 90%.He is watching a christmas movie,
at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning
I assisted him with a shower,sitz bath,
back-rub,skin care and ear drops.After
lunch we went for a short walk and Mr
Dancy watched some tv.His appetite was
good eating 90% for all meals.His BP is
also good 130/80.He is relaxing by the
tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
after a trip to the bathroom it was time,
for breakfast.We went for a short walk
before lunch.Mr Dancys appetite was good
today,eating 90% for all meals.He is relaxing
by the tv at this time. Ilene

''Thanksgiving Morning''

Hi,Mr Dancy seems to be doing very well,
After rising at 7:30 am i assisted him in
the bathroom with a shower,sitz bath,
back-rub and skin care. His appetite was
good this morning eating 100%. His bp
is good 140/78. He is relaxing by the tv,
watching the parade at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 8:am this morning,
He did not sleep well,getting up off and on
Last night. He had his shower, sitz bath,
Back-rub,ear drops and skin care.After breakfast
He watched some tv and later we got out the
Picture book.His appetite was good eating
100% for all meals. His BP was good 142/78.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before,
breakfast. We went for a short walk before
lunch and later got out a puzzle. Mr Dancys
appetite was good today eating 100% for
all meals. Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv
at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath,
Back-rub, ear drops and skin care.We
Went for a short walk after breakfast and
Later got out the hidden picture book.
Mr Dancys appetite was good ,eating
95% for all meals. His BP was good ....
136/80. He is relaxing by the tv at this
Time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy had a nice quiet evening.
His appetite was good eating 100%.
He is getting ready for bed at this time.
ILene

Dad and the Election

A few weeks ago I requested a absentee ballot for Dad. I asked him though what he wanted to vote for Democrat or Republican, I didn't want to assume anything, but I was very glad he said Democrat. He didn't say much else, but he told Dot today that he knew that there had been an election and that the Democrats won. When she asked him who won he said Obama.

This past Friday Dad was not sleepy at all. He wanted to know where his money was and wanted to see a pay statement. I found the bank statement and he was very angry about how the money was being spent, saying he couldn't afford it. I told Bettie that he was wide awake but she still said she wouldn't mind coming in. She was worried it upset me--it did a little, but not as much as she assumed. But I was glad to leave Dad that evening.

Sunday he was very sleepy most of the day. He revived again in the evening, telling me how stupid I was, etc. That he couldn't afford to spend $100,000 a month. Oh well. It does make me think a bit about how I spend the money!

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi Mr Dancy was up at 8:30 this morning,
He did not sleep well last night ,up and
Down most of the night.I assisted him with
A shower,sitz bath,back-rub,ear drops
And skin care.After breakfast we went
For a walk and later worked a small puzzle.
His appetite was good today eating 100%
For all meals.His BP was good 140/80.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before...
Breakfast. We went for a walk before lunch
And later got out a puzzle . Mr Dancy watched
Some tv and took a nap.His appetite was good
Eating 100% for all meals.He is relaxing by
The tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom with a
Shower, sitz bath,back-rub ,skin care and
Ear drops/His appetite was good eating
100% for all meals.We went for a walk
And got out the hidden picture book.
Mr Dancys bp was good today 138/76.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

''Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
After breakfast we went for a walk and
Later colored a picture in the sea life book.
His appetite was good today eating 100%
For all meals. Mr Dancy is relaxing by the
Tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

''Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom with a,
Shower, sitz bath ,back-rub and skin care.
After breakfast he watched some tv.His
Appetite was good eating 100% for all
Meals. His bp was good 142/80.Mr Dancy
Is relaxing by the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at the usual time
7:30 am, i assisted him in the bathroom
Before breakfast. Before lunch we took a ,
Short walk and later looked at some photos,
And watched some tv.Mr Dancys appetite
Was good today eating 100% for all meals.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

Dad Was really Talking this weekend

Dad was really speaking this weekend! I didn't really see him much until Saturday afternoon, since I came in late Friday for a short while (and he was sleeping).

Saturday I came in about 5 and left and came back about 10. Dad was watching TV. He went to bed about 11 pm. But he woke up very early. I noticed an odor but didn't arise as quickly as I could have. Dad had turned the oven up to 450 and was attempting to warm up his pants. When I opened the oven I saw the blackened clothes, burning slightly. I quickly tossed them in the sink! Dad tried to touch them. Then he started looking for his pants again! The alarm then went off and a security guard came by and talked with Dad and I for a few minutes. All this time Dad is walking around without his cane! He mentioned that he had fallen, but appeared to be in okay shape.

After breakfast Dad insisted on driving, "just a block". He had been talking the day before about how the car had been wreaked and such. Also he asked where Mom was. Then he seemed shocked when I mentioned Jennie. He said she is married? Really! Then he said that I was married to him. And he asked if my father was still in the Army. (He looked at a card from Norman Short, his naval academy roommate--most of the time he NEVER reads).

He went to the car and even though I was protesting, got into the driver's side. He almost fell trying to get into the car, but managed to steady himself. I had called Chip for some moral support. During the phone call to Chip he seemed very talkative and such. I finally told Dad I should at least drive out the driveway before he drove. Then after that I let Dad steer the wheel, he turned the wheel for a short ways then seemed satisfied with the performance of the car.

Dad talked a lot about his knees hurting him so I rubbed some aspercreme on them. I hope that helped them. Later we decided to call his roommate and he told the roommate how awful he felt, that he had broken both his legs, etc. etc. He said everyone had died, his mother, his father, his sisters, (though he did not mention Mom). He also asked where some building was at the naval academy that he needed to go to. He also mentioned that he wanted him to come to visit but that he would not be able to play golf.

He also kept insisting that I was his wife. [It was flattering I must say.]

At dinner he said he felt he could eat again (he had a hard tine eating his green beans at lunch). It wasn't so much what he said, it was his tone of voice--very positive and he seemed to be able to think, though he sounded like he was a bit amnesic. Even though he asked a lot of questions (some over and over), I was happy that he was talking!

Sunday night asked what he should wear the next day (he had said previously that he felt good enough to go to the office). I said the green pants. He woke me up at 4 am and showed me the blue pants and shirt he had picked out. Then he put the clothes on and sat on the dining room chair a couple of hours till I got up! It was nice that he was able to dress himself.

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath,
Back-rub, skin care and ear drops.His
Appetite was good eating 95% for all meals.
We got out a small puzzle and finished it,
And Mr Dancy watched some tv.His BP
Was good today 138/76.He is relaxing by
The tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at the usual time,7:30
Am,i assisted him in the bathroom before
Breakfast . After breakfast we went for a
Walk and later got the hidden object book
Out to look fo hidden pictures.Mr Dancys
Appetite was good today,eating 95% of
All meals.He is relaxing by the tv at this
Time.Ilene

Dad looks Gaunt

I came by on Wednesday. Dad seemed thin. I don't recall him getting thinner, but I did notice that his belt had to be tightened more lately.

He does have trouble eating at times. I have to remind him to continue eating. So basically he eat about what I eat (but I also eat more snacks later). He never asks for food, though I do offer him nuts and ice cream at night.

Dad's Weekend

This past weekend I worked on Saturday, so Friday was my day off to go the Dixie Fair with Suzie and Ella. We had fun eating deep fried Oreos, deep fried vegetables, lemonade, etc. And enjoying the baby changing tent so Suzie could feed Ella.

Unfortunately Dad had a Number 2 accident in his pants! I think he thought he was passing gas. He got up to use the toilet but it was too late.

I was putting together a jigsaw puzzle and asked where the Kara Sea was. Dad had a sense that where he thought it might be. I had never heard of it. After hours of being totally silent, he said where it was located, just as if he hadn't been quiet for hours. (I have now forgotten what he said.)

I sent away for an absentee ballot for Dad. (I hope he votes for Democrats, but he may vote for John McCain, as he used to really like him!).

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi ,Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
For the past two nights he has not slept
Well,up on and off,he says hes looking for
His car keys.I gave him his shower,sitz bath,
Back-rub,ear drops and skin care before
Breakfast. after lunch we took a walk and
Later got out a puzzle. His appetite was
Good today eating 95% for three meals.
His Bp is good 140/78.Mr Dancy is relaxing
By the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before having
Breakfast.After lunch we went out for a walk
and later got out a puzzle.His appetite was
Good eating 100% for three meals.Mr Dancy
Is relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

Dad's Weekend

Ilene stayed with Dad late this Friday. I came in at 11:30 pm. I picked up Bettie because she was unable to get a ride and drove her to Dad's home.

On Saturday evening I came and picked up Dad. We went to the grocery store with Bettie. Dad enjoyed riding on the electric scooter in the store. Later I drove Dad to the dining hall to get a little walk. He stayed outside on the bench while I went it to get the meal. He talked to a couple of people who were also sitting. We had a nice mahi fish meal.

Sunday Dad woke up about 9 am. He made a sound of surprise when he woke up as if he was being startled, but he went back to sleep for a few more minutes. Maybe scary dreams or perhaps when he wakes up reality hits him hard! Later we went to my house where we ate the meal that I picked up. I added some roasted vegetables (zucchini, squash, eggplant, red onion and red, orange and yellow peppers). The dining room is getting into a rut of plain green beans and too-buttery carrots.

Dot came over last night for a few hours and gave Dad a shower. Before she came over he went over to the shower stall and tried to get into it

Dad seemed a little apathetic this weekend but this morning seemed more lively (maybe the shower woke him up?) He put on his pants by himself and seemed willing to do the exercise bike contraption. Earlier this weekend he didn't want to do it--said he wasn't able to do it!

This morning I noticed Dad hadn't had a bowel movement since Friday. So I asked Dot (who is watching Dad tonight) to give him the rest of the prune juice in the can and give him an overnight laxative.

Bettie will be coming in tonight about 11:30. Ilene will be coming earlier on Wednesday to help with grocery shopping. She has a gift card from Food Lion to use.

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at,
7:30 am,i assisted him in the bathroom,
With a shower, sitz bath, back-rub,skin-
Care and ear drops.After breakfast we
Went for a walk and later it was time
For lunch.His appetite was good eating
90% of the three meals. He put together
One of the puzzles and watched some tv.
His BP was 138/76, he is relaxing by the
Tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I arrived for work at 3:30,Mr
Dancy ate supper at 5:30 eating
Only 50%,i gave him a supplement,
Drink and he is relaxing by the tv
At this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at the usual time,7:30.
I assisted him in the bathroom with a shower,
Sitz bath,back-rub,skin care and ear drops.
His appetite was good eating 95% for the
Two meals. He said that he didnt feel well
Today,he napped on and off all day.Mr Dancy
Was up most of the night in a very confused,
State at one point he tried to get the front
Door open to go out in the rain,i talked to him
For a few mintues and he went back to bed
And kept getting up throughout the night.
His BP was good today,140/80.He is relaxing
By the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 am,i assisted,
Him in the bathroom before breakfast.
We went for a walk after breakfast and..
Later Mr Dancy watched some tv.His
Appetite was good today eating 90%.
He seemed to be feeling much better.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at the,
Usual time, 7:30 am, i assisted him in the
Bathroom with a sitz bath, back-rub..
Shower, skin care and ear drops. After
Breakfast we took a walk and later Mr
Dancy got out'' the hidden picture book''
He also watched some tv and took a few,
Naps.His appetite was good today eating
95%,he is still complaing of pain in the
Rectal area,i applied the cream .put him on ,
The sitz bath 2x1 today. His BP was good,
130/78. Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv at,
This time. Ilene

''Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi,i arrived at Mr Dancys home at 3;30,
Mr Dancy had supper at 5:15 eating..
Only 50% i gave him a suppement drink
After supper.He is getting ready for bed
At this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
After a trip to the bathroom it was time
For breakfast. We went for a short walk..
In between the rain and later got out a
puzzle to work. His appetite was good ..
Eating 95% for all meals.He is relaxing.
By the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I arrived to work at 3:30 pm,
I took Betty to work and assisted
Mr Dancy with supper around ..
5:30 ,eating 100%,he is relaxing
By the tv at this time. Ilene

Dad More Active this Weekend

Saturday Dad walked around the house more. Bettie reported that she got up at 6 am and couldn't find Dad. He was in the garage sitting in the car. I guess he wanted to go somewhere. He told Bettie he wished he could drive. Bettie said she wished she could drive him but she doesn't drive (she was in an accident a few years ago and didn't drive after that).

On Sunday morning he woke up about 6 am and went into the kitchen. He started to make coffee, putting water in the pot, but then stopped. He did put the coffee itself in the refrigerator. Then he went to bed again. Later he came into the kitchen, (without being helped out of bed), and said "Did you feed the children" (implying I was Mom!). Later he asked did I feed my children (he might have been trying to say that he knew I was his daughter, Not Mom!

At my house Dad asked for more chicken, (usually he justs eats what is on the plate only). Later that afternoon he went to the kitchen and searched for something to eat.

He was more expressive when he was talking, telling me he wished he could do something about the nails in his legs. (I gave him some Ibuprofen.). He said that he was sorry he couldn't drive but his legs were not well.

He also asked me some questions about why my last boyfriend left me. And he continued the conversation, what did he do when you broke up, how did he feel, etc.

Later we watched the football game and enjoyed the Panthers last second winning touchdown. I also watched the tennis US Open with Dad.

It was a nice evening. Dad watched another football game, but later said it was a waste of time it took place too far away.

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up at 4:pm this
Evening.He ate supper around 5:30,
Eating 90%.He is relaxing by the tv at
This time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning.
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath,..
Back-rub, skin care and ear drops.We went
For a short walk after breakfast and after
Lunch from subway we did the hidden..
Pictures book.Mr Dancys appetite was good
Eating 90% for the three meals. I took Mr
Dancys BP at 5:45 it was 158/82.He is
Relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

'Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at the usual time this..
Morning.After a trip to the bathroom i took..
Mr Dancy down to the dining hall for break-
Fast,he seemed to enjoy himself and ate all
His breakfast.We went for a walk before ..
lunch And later got out the hidden picture
books .His apetite was good today eating 90%
Of The three meals. Mr Dancy is in bed at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I arrived for work at 3:30,after taking
Betty to work it was time to call in supper,
Mr Dancy had supper around 5:15 eating
85%.He is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

Dad tries to play poker

Last Saturday night I fell asleep watching Saturday Night Live. I woke up and found Dad had pulled a dining room chair to the very front of the TV and was watching a poker game on TV.

Dad tried to play poker by using the remote control to move the cards that were being displayed on the screen. He really wanted to play!

The next time it comes on I will try to record it so that he can watch during the day as I think the games are normally on after midnight when he is normally asleep.

''Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
He was moving slow this morning so we
Didnt get to go for breakfast.Maintenance
Arrived this morning to repair the refriger..
ator and bathroom light.Mr Dancy had his
Shower, sitz bath, back-rub, skin care and
Ear drops as scheduled.We went for a walk
Early and went to subway for lunch. we ..
Worked a small puzzle and Mr Dancy watched
Some tv. His BP was good 128/80,appetite
Was also good 100% for the three meals.He
Is relaxing by the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I arrived at Mr Dancys home at 3:30,
He ate supper around 5:30 eating 100%.
Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up at 4:pm today.
He ate supper at 5:30 ,the meal was late
Coming.His appetite was good eating
100%. Ilene

" Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning.
I assisted him in the bathroom with a shower...
Sitz bath, back-rub, ear drops and skin care.
I put Mr Dancy on the sitz bath three times
Today and used the cream, that seemed to
Help with the pain. We went for a walk and
Later took a drive out to get a snack ,a taco..
He seemed to like the outing and the snack.
We worked some on the puzzle, also.Mr Dancys
Appetite was good today ,eating 100% for
The three meals. I took his BP at 5:45 it was
124/78. He is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at,
7:30 am,i assisted him in the bathroom
Before breakfast. We went for a walk after
Lunch and later worked some on the
Puzzle. I put Mr Dancy on the sitz bath
Several times today and used the cream ,
To aid his discomfort.His appetite was
Good today eating 95% for the three meals.
He is geting ready for bed at this time.
Ilene

' Mr Dancys Evening ''

Hi, I arrived for work at 3:30, Mr Dancy
Ate supper around 5:15, eating 100%.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up today at 4:pm.
He had supper around 5:15 eating 95%.
Mr Dancy is getting ready for bed at this
Time.Ilene

Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, today was a very good day for Mr Dancy,
He was up at 7:30 am. I assisted him with
His scheduled shower, sitz bath, back-rub...
Skin care and ear drops. We went with Cathy,
To pick garden vegetables at 11:am he seemed
To enjoy the outing. His appetite was good today,
Eating 95% of his three meals.His BP was good,
134/80.At this time Mr Dancy is relaxing by
The tv.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before btreakfast.
We went for a walk and later took a drive
Around the neighborhood. Mr Dancys appetite
Was good today eating 95% for the three
Meals.He is getting ready for bed at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I arrived for work at 3:30 pm,Mr Dancy
Ate supper at 5:15 eating 90%. He is relaxing
By the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up at 3:50. Mr
Dancy ate supper at 5:15 eating 90%
He is getting ready for bed at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy did not rest well last night,
He was up off and on until 3:am,i put him
Back to bed several times the last time i heard
Him get up was a little after 3:am he had
Fallen in the towel closet over the clothes that
Were in the basket,he bruised his elbow and
I went ahead and gave him his shower,sitz..
Bath and back-rub , i cleaned and dressed his
Arm and later he went back to sleep.He seemed
Extremely confused and agitated. He was up
Again at 6:30 and i took him in the tv room
Where he sat and watched tv until time for
Breakfast.We went for a walk after breakfast,
And took a ride out for a snack,he seemed
Much better the rest of the evening.His appetite
Was good eating 95%,his BP was 142/80 at
6:pm.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before....
Breakfast. We went for a walk and Mr
Dancy did some exercises and worked on
A puzzle.His appetite was good eating 90%
Today.Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv at
This time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I arrived at Mr Dancys at 3:30 pm,
Mr Dancy ate supper at 5:15 eating
100%.The panel above the thermostat
In the hall began to make a loud noise
And odor,i called maintenance and the
Repairman disconnected the wiring and
Said that he would return tomorrow to
Put another one in. Mr Dancy is preparing
For bed at this time. Ilene

' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up at 3:45.He
Ate his supper at 5:15 eating 100%.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower,sitz bath,
Skin care and back-rub.His appetite
Was good today eating 95% for the
Three meals. Mr Dancy did some exercises,
today And went for a walk,we also rode to
The store for a snack and Mr Dancy later
Worked a puzzle.His BP was 140/80.
He is relaxing by the tv at this time. He
Also had his ear drops.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I arrived at Mr Dancys home at 3:30 pm,
Mr Dancy had supper around 5:15 eating
100% he is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath,
Back-rub ,skin care ,and ear drops.We
Went for a walk this morning and later
Mr Dancy did some exercises,we also
Went for a ride to the store and worked
Some in the ''hidden object book''. I took
Mr Dancys BP it was 160/80.His appetite
Was good today eating 95% for the three
Meals. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at
7:30 am. I assisted him in the bathroom
Before breakfast. We went for a walk
Before lunch and later Mr Dancy did
Some exercises.His appetite was good
Today eating 95% for the three meals.
He is now relaxing by the tv,he had
A nice quiet day.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I arrived at Mr Dancys home at 3:30,
Mr Dancy ate supper around 5:15 eating
95%. He is relaxing by the tv watching a
Movie ''the hunt or red october''.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up at 4:pm,we
Arrived at Mr Dancys home at 4:30 pm.
He ate supper eating 90% at 5:15. He
Is in bed at this time. Ilene

''Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath,
Back-rub and skin care.We went for a walk
Before lunch and Mr Dancy did some exercises.
His appetite was good eating 100% for three
Meals. His BP was good 120/78. Mr Dancy
Is relaxing by the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I reported for work at 3:30 pm,
Mr Dancy ate supper at 5:pm eating,
100% he is relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up from senior services
At 4:pm. He ate supper at 5:15 eating 100%.
Mr Dancy is in bed at this time.Ilene

'' Mr dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at 7:30 am,
I assisted him in the bathroom with a sitz-
Bath, back- rub, skin care and applied the
Ear drpos all week. After breakfast we went
For a short walk and later Mr Dancy did
Some exercises and watched tv,I got out
Some of the activities but he said he didnt
Feel well today.His appetite was good eating
90% of three meals. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
After a trip to the bathroom it was time
For breakfast. We went for a walk and
Mr Dancy did some exercises and watched
Some tv, we also got out the hidden object
Book. Mr Dancys appetite was good today
Eating 95% of three meals.Mr Dancy is in
Bed at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys' Day''

Hi, I reported for work at 3:30 pm,
Mr Dancy had supper around 5:30
Eating 100%. Mr Dancy is relaxing
By the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening ''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up at 4:pm,he
Ate supper around 5:30 eating 95%.
He is in bed at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath, skin-
Care and back-rub. We went for a walk after
10:am and Mr Dancy did some exercises. We
Watched a movie and worked some on the
Hidden object book. Mr Dancys appetite was
Good today eating 100% for three meals.
His BP was good 136/80 ,he also had his daily
Ear drops.He seems to be feeling much better.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I reported for work at 3:30 pm.
Mr Dancy ate supper at 5:15 eating
95%,he is relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up from senior services
At 4:pm. He ate supper at 5:15 eating 90%.
He didnt look like he felt good, so i took his
Oral temp it was normal 98.6. His glasses
Rubbed the outside of his nose raw, i washed
His face in arm water and blotted it dry and
Applied soothing vaseline to the affected area.
I removed his glasses for the rest of the
Evening. I gave him his morning meds at 5:pm
And waited until 9:30 to give his evening meds.
Morning was left in the pill container.I applied
The ear drops to his right ear . Mr Dancy is
Now in bed. Ilene

Dad's Visit with Dr. Lichstein

Dad saw Dr. Lichstein this morning. He was quite animated at first, telling Dr. Lichstein about being stationed in Washington DC and how his ship's propeller had to be fixed.

Dad's blood pressure seemed a bit high about 155, but Dr. Lichstein said that the bp readings seem to run higher in his office. His weekly pressure runs about 124 systolic.

Dr. Lichstein is prescribing a cream to help with Dad's itching. He thinks Benadryl is not so great, (because it causes some confusion), but Claritin ok for his itch. I explained that I only give it to him at bedtime though, so he was alright with that. He also stopped the Oxybutyn, saying that it can also cause confusion. (Dad probably doesn't need to worry about frequent urination at this point in time). Dad also has his blood drawn for thyroid function.

I was wondering if Dad was hearing as well, as he asks "what" a lot. The nurse removed a lot of wax from his ears, but couldn't remove some from his right ear. Dad was complaining too much. She explained that it can really hurt when it is ripped off the ear drum. We will put ear drops in his right ear for a few days.

Dad is only going to Senior Services once a week now on Mondays. Ilene wants to stay through Thursdays. This week she will have Friday off since it is the Fourth of July. I will stay with Dad that day.

I have gotten in the summer habit of eating a light breakfast on Sundays with Dad, then watch Sunday Morning on CBS, do some yoga (Dad sometimes stretches, sometimes snoozes), then order the lunch, keep it warm in the oven for a couple of hours, eat about 2 pm, go to my house, feed the cats, watch golf, come back in the evening, watch sixty minutes on CBS, have salad and pizza, watch something light. Then wake up Monday morning and go to senior services about 11 am or so.

'' A Good Day For Mr Dancy''

Hi, Today was a good day for Mr Dancy he,
Talked about past events and smiled a lot
Today. The morning started off with a
Shower, sitz bath, back-rub and skin care.
After a good breakfast we went for a walk.
He worked a little on the ''sea life book'' and
Some on the'' hidden object book''. His
Appetite was good eating 100% today.He
Is relaxing by the tv at this time. Ilene

Visit with Dr. LIchstein

Dad will have a visit with Dr. Lichstein on Monday June 30rd at 8:20 a.m.

If you have any comments or thoughts please let me know.

'' A Good Day For Mr Dancy''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before
Breakfast. We went for a walk after break-
fast and later did some exercise.Mr Dancy
Did some coloring in the ''sea life book''. His
Appetite was good today eating 95%.He is
Relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I reported for work at 3:30 pm ,transported
Betty to work. Mr Dancy ate supper around
5:15 eating 100%. He is relaxing by the tv
At this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up from senior services
At 3:50. He ate supper aound 5:15 eating
100%,he is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

''Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up this morning at 7:30,
I assisted him with a shower, sitz bath, back-
Rub and skin care. After breakfast we went
For a walk and went for a drive around the
Neighborhood, his appetite was good eating
100% for all meals. His BP was good 124/72.
He did some exercises and is relaxing by the
Tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bahroom before breakfast.
After breakfast we went for a walk and later
Some exercises. We finished the puzzle and
Mr Dancy watched some tv and had a fruit snack.
His appetite was good eating 100% for all
Meals, he is relaxing by the tv at this time
Watching a movie. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, Mr Dancy seemed to have a nice quite
Evening,he ate supper around 5:15 eating
100% he is now relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up from senior services
At 5:pm,he ate supper around 5:30 eating
95%.Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom with a shower,
Sitz bath, back-rub and skin care. We went
For a walk early and later we worked on the
Hidden Object book. Mr Dancys appetite
Was good today eating 98%. His BP was also
Good 140/80 he is relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him in the bathroom before
Breakfast. We went for a walk early to
Beat the heat. His appetite was good today
Eating 95% for the three meals.We worked
Some on the puzzle and Mr Dancy watched
Tv and was alert most of the day.He is relaxing
By the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, Mr Dancy was watching tv when i arrived,
He ate supper around 5:15 eating 100%.
Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower,sitz bath
Back-rub and skin care. After breakfast we
Went for a walk before it was too hot to go.
His appetite was good today eating 90%
For the three meals. Around 2:pm we went
To carvels for ice cream he seemed to enjoy
The outing.His BP was good 120/78.He is
Relaxing by the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning
I assisted him in the bathroom before
Breakfast. We went out for a walk early
Before it was too hot to walk. Mr Dancy
Did some exercises and later we read some
Scriptures. His appetite was good eating
90% for the three meals. Mr Dancy is relaxing
By the tv at this time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up from senior services
At 3:15. Mr Dancy ate supper at 5:30 pm,
Eating 80%, he is relaxing by the tv at this
Time. Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Evening''

Hi, I picked Mr Dancy up from senior services,
At 4:pm,he ate supper around 5:15 eating
100%,he is relaxing by the tv at this time.
Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
I assisted him with a shower,sitz bath and
Back- rub. His appetite was good eating
90% overall for the three meals. we went
For a walk this afternoon and did some
Exercises along with later working on the
Hidden object book. His BP was good today,
122/80, he had a nice quiet day. Ilene


P.S. I use a lot of the lotion on his skin,
It seems to help the itching.

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, Mr Dancy was up at 7:30 this morning,
After a trip to the bathroom it was time for
Breakfast,he watched some tv today on
And off. he stated that he didnt feel good.
I asked him was he in any pain and he
Answered' no'.His appetite was good eating
90% of the three meals.Mr Dancy is relaxing
By the tv at this time.Ilene

'' Mr Dancys Day''

Hi, i arrived at Mr Dancys at 3:30 pm.
He ate supper at 5:15 eating 100%.
Mr Dancy is relaxing by the tv at this
Time .Ilene